Suddenly Single: Opportunity for New Path
By Devya

A partner is no longer in your life and you find yourself suddenly single. This may have come about through a failed relationship, a divorce, or death. Each ending brings forth a different set of circumstances to be handled, yet all three have loss of emotional equilibrium in common. You’re buffeted by feelings that run the gamut from grief, anger, and fear to abandonment, bewilderment, and at times even relief.

Since this can be one of the most trying times in our lives, there is a requisite mourning period for each type of loss. However, each difficult moment of this period of mourning contains the potential to open your eyes and heart because you can control your thoughts while making your way back to emotional strength. For example, if you choose to think about all your past hurts, you’ll feel bad. While it’s true that you can’t change the past, you can change the effect it has on you now.

How? By choosing a new path.

If you are ‘suddenly single’ you have a perfect opportunity to expand yourself. This is prime time for personal growth, for self-awareness, for self-discovery. After all, life has given yet one more chance to create the life you’ve always wanted, to be happier than you’ve ever been, to explore a spiritual path. This is a time to release the many sub-personalities inside, to heal the wounded child within, to re-invent yourself by allowing The Source to be a Co-Creator in your life. Stepping onto a path of spiritual development is a wonderful way to find deeper levels of meaning in this seemingly crazy world.

The straightest road forward is through regular meditation. Meditation will improve your health and well-being by reducing stress and tension. It will strengthen your mind’s ability to heal you while restoring your emotional balance. Imagine how powerful you’ll feel as you strengthen your connection to The Source and attune to your body’s messages and signals!

As you become more open to your intuition and recognize it as Divine guidance, repeated blessings will flow into your life. One of meditation’s most rewarding benefits is making you happier, and hence more attractive, which translates to you being more desirable to the partner who is looking for you.

Meditation strips away all the wounds that create a false self and reveals your true nature, which is love—just love.

Devya, Meditation Mentor, Relationship Coach and Gong Master, helps individuals maximize personal power, solve relationship issues and achieve greater spiritual awareness. She offers a wide range of customized meditation programs to meet the particular needs of her clients. Her programs include meditation instruction, relationship coaching, gong energy therapy, stress management, silent retreats, and meditation vacations. Devya has been featured in Essence, O, The Oprah Magazine, and Heart and Soul, and has been a presenter at The African American Women On Tour (AAWOT). Devya is well known to the WEVD, WBAI, WLIB, WOLB and WHCR radio audiences.

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